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What is recovery from alcoholic thinking?
Recovery from alcoholic thinking has the power to promise things beyond anyone’s wildest dreams. The 12 steps and all the anonymous programs are a saving grace for millions. However, when entering a rehab of sorts, there are a number of things that can ruin this newfangled path we’ve manifested.
Can you cope with recovery?
It can be incredibly tempting to cope in recovery with a relationship. In fact, some may not even be coping ; they may just feel a unique connection with someone that they’ve never felt before. That feeling is sobering (no pun intended). But as important as it is to hold your emotions and connections to others in high regard, it is also imperative that you hold yourself and your own development as an individual in high regard, absent from a romantic relationship.
Why should I not go to rehab for romance?
The final reason to avoid romance in rehab is that it is most likely against the rules. Nearly all treatment programs contain a “non-fraternization” policy that outlines what kind of romantic behavior is prohibited and how patients that engage in that behavior are handled. Sometimes, though not always, a continued violation can result in expulsion from your treatment program.
How high is the risk of relapse?
The risk of relapse for addicts is already high, between 40-60 percent according to the National Institute on Drug Abuse. Being romantically involved with another addict, even while in recovery, could raise that risk to considerable heights. On your own, even if you relapse, you will have the tools you learned in treatment to get back on track. With a ‘partner in crime’ by your side, it is even easier to slip back into and continue drug use habits. You may think that you can support each other while in recovery, but it is important to think about your support network, and how strong you need the people in it to be. Could a newly recovering addict provide that strength? It is not likely.
What happens after a long period of drug abuse?
After a long period of drug abuse, your body needs time to recover. Sexual activity may not be in your best interest right now, especially if you are at risk of carrying STDs from previous risky behaviors. Moving forward through recovery means working towards a healthy balance of mind, body, and spirit. Sexual activity could prove to be a significant obstacle to your goals.
