I left my husband tonight
I’m sorry I’m venting again, but a lot of people were worried for my well being and asking me if I was safe. I had to take a very hard look at my life.
My son died this week, this is the relapse potential they warned me about
My oldest kid was 20 years old and had severe disabilities, he was wheelchair bound and had an epilepsy disorder and needed 24/7 care. His funeral was today.
If you're here quietly because you're worried about your drinking, please read
I spent far too long knowing it was a problem before I did anything about it.
Was cleaning and found a hidden bottle. Was weak and decided to drink it. When I went open it spilled it everywhere
It was fireball too. The universe said "no sbbazzz you will not drink today". Now I am covered in a sticky mess laughing.
I. AM. 50 DAYS SOBER !!
And in those 50 days I've made great improvements. Alcohol is the worst coping mechanism I've ever had, and I'm glad I've managed to live without it for 50 days. Fifty. Holy shit I'm so proud. WE DIDN'T COME THIS FAR TO ONLY COME THIS FAR ! IWNDWYT 🔥 Thanks so much for the daily check in ! This community rocks.
How soon is too soon to be dating after rehab?
So you went to rehab and emerged on the other side. You’re clean, your head’s on straight, and you can think clearly for the first time in a while. People arrive at this point ready to take on the world, and that isn’t a bad thing. However, when it comes to dating after rehab, waiting is key.
The pitfalls of entering a relationship too soon
Most people in rehab are young adults, and dating is something that young adults do. There is no getting around that. There is also no getting around the fact that by going to rehab you just invested a ton of time and effort into your well-being. No one is worth coming in between that.
Things that Factor Into Your Ability to Date in Recovery
The answer to when you personally are ready to date relies on your history, where you are in life, your current mindset, and how strong you feel. Many factors help to determine if you are ready for dating and what your chance of relapse will be. Here are some things to think about.
So When is it the Right Time to Begin Dating After Rehab?
Many people say the right time is a year. While this is a good guideline, it isn’t the same for everyone. It’s important to take the factors above into serious consideration. A solid year of sobriety after rehab gives you a better sense of self. You will have gone through a number of life experiences and successfully handled them while sober.